Monday, October 28, 2013

Traveling Solo in Kenya

Traveling alone….Scary? Sometimes. Fun? Absolutely. I have never traveled solo until this trip to Kenya. My thoughts leading up to my departure revolved a lot around scorecards (GRS M&E love) and anything but the trip really. Maybe this was a good thing, because thinking about it, traveling solo to a country I know very little about, including the language, is a bit scary. Yet, this trip did everything to convince me that I might just travel the world solo. My reasons:

1) The people you meet.
          When traveling with friends or family you have a tendency to talk and hang out with them instead of branch out to those around you. I can’t tell you how many wonderful meaningful conversations I had with my taxi drivers, the other hostel guests (1 worked as the East African Google Developer, 1 was a retired professor from University of Oregon, and 1 did some sort of work with a nonprofit water project), the hostel staff, the people sitting next to you on public transportation, and even the airport workers. These conversations ranged from politics, prostitution, South Africa, America, music, school systems, aid work, Nelson Mandela, you name it. I learned a lot about Kenya and life from these various conversations and looking back I know for a fact that if I was traveling in a group I wouldn’t have sat in the front seat of the cab next to Lawrence for 2 hours talking about life and prostitution. Clearly, the conversations are great.



2) Expecting the unexpected
            It wouldn’t be adventure if everything went perfectly now would it? Traveling solo means that when something doesn’t exactly work out you have to figure out and being alone adds half the fun. This is the part that scares me most yet gives me the most adrenaline. You never know what could happen and what you might gain from the experience.

Take for example getting stuck in the middle of the bush Kenya with a broken down taxi and no cell phone. Yes this happened on my way to Sara Jo at the Daraja Academy. Luckily, people are kind enough to let you borrow their cellphones and you end up walking up the road and leaving the taxi driver and other passenger on the side of the road. Hey, in my defense they kept reiterating how dangerous the road was after dark. Clearly for the mzungu girl it was 5x the danger and I did try to help push-start it before I left.


Or take for example, a stranger giving you a rose in the parking lot because you look lost. Yes, I was lost but the nice man handed me a rose and offered to call the person I was looking for. Ended up giving the rose to the VAP team. Perfect thank-you gift! 


Or when your credit cards get shut down when you try to leave your hostel. Yeah that happened to-apologies to all those that woke up to random texts/facetimes. Time changes are not easy!



Or the fact you can meet people who can take you on a free game drive where you see baby elephants, zebras, hyenas, giraffes, buffalo, hippos and more! Huge thanks to Morgan, the Mpala Research Center, and SJ for that! I can now say I’ve seen animals J




Karibu Kenya

My trip to Kenya was way too short yet beyond incredible for two reasons: VAP and Daraja.

Vijani Amani Pamoja (VAP)
When it came down to it I only had 1 full day in Nairobi. Some might want to explore and do all the touristy stuffy like visiting the Nairobi National Park, the big market to buy crafts, or stopping in to a museum. Me, on the other hand, spent the day visiting a school, walking through the slums, eating ugali, and talking about how to further the work of great nonprofit. Only the best way to spend my only day in Nairobi!

The day was spent with the VAP team. VAP is a partner organization of GRS. Since starting with GRS I have only heard incredible things about the team; Enounce, Oppo, Oti, and Nancy. It turns out everything I’ve heard is true and more. I went to VAP with the mere task of talking to Oppo, their M&E coordinator, about M&E related things I won’t bore you with. However the visit was so much more than that. Their office is a tiny room, barely enough space to fit 2 desks, a bookshelf and two chairs. The small room is nothing compared to the size of their hearts and the passion that flows so wildly from the room. I was blown away with how hard they work for the cause because they want to see change. They were telling me how other organizations have heard about them and are coming to them for advice and see them as role models!!! AH! I’m pretty sure I had a huge smile glued to my face from the second Oppo greeted me with a ginormous hug outside of the office building. The team took me out to lunch and ordered me some ugali and chicken stew. It was DELICIOUS! After lunch, Oppo said he would take me out to an intervention. Of course I couldn’t decline the offer. We met Oti and several other coaches out at the school.  During our walk and waiting times, Oppo, Oti and I decided that when we all somehow become millionaires we are going to start a professional soccer team. So yes, my life plans have changed. The intervention was great to watch and the students were participating like crazy. They were asking questions about stuff they didn’t understand and showing off their knowledge of HIV/AIDS. The HIV/AIDS battle begins with youth. They are the change makers that can turn the tide. To see these youth engaged in learning about HIV/AIDS gave me chills. This can change lives. This can change communities. Peace Together Youth.

By the time Eddy, a coach, had gotten me back to the city centre, I had officially spent almost 7 hours with the VAP team. No other way to spend a day.

The Daraja Academy:

The Form 4s singing for everyone!
The point of my trip to Kenya was to visit SJ who has been working at a girl’s academy called Daraja since June. The school is home to 104 very very very intelligent girls from all over the country who would otherwise have no opportunity for a secondary education. Saturday was “Prayer Day” at the school. The girls’ families are invited to come to the school to wish the Form 4s (seniors) good luck on their national exams. These exams which take place over about 3 or so weeks determine if students will be able to go to university or not. There about 33 tests in subjects such as chemistry, biology, English, Swahili, and Algebra. Students who receive good grades (As) can get their university paid for by the government--a huge deal to students who come low income families. Students who receive low grades will probably not go on to further education. A lot of pressure rides on these exams. You could tell that these girls, were studying hard. SJ said that they may wake up at 4am to study and stay up late. 

However, on Saturday it was all fun and smiles. I lost count of how many times the hair on my arms stood up from the incredible moments. The first came when one of the students’ families arrived. She wasn’t near the gate when they first arrived but all of the girls started yelling for her. The next thing you know she is bolting through campus with the biggest grin on her face. She runs up to her family and gives them a huge high five and a hug. It was precious. These girls are away from their families for so long and to most of them their families are their backbones. They study hard to make their moms or aunts or sisters or dads proud. A part of me immediately missed my family but like the girls, we are away to be change makers. 

The second hair chilling moment came when the preacher, who was incredible and very inspiring, offered to pay for the top girl’s university tuition. HOLY COW! We were in shock. The crowd immediately broke out in cheers and claps and huge smiles. Smiles, cheers, and claps sum up Daraja. There is so much happiness and dedication that fills that campus. Here are 104 girls that are so eager to learn it’s astonishing. I can’t help but think of all the girls worldwide that are so eager to learn yet are denied the opportunity. I had flash backs to all those nights in college when I complained about homework or just didn’t turn in an assignment and settled for a lower grade. What I was doing. For all those reading, embrace the opportunity that is in front of you to learn, whether in school or not. Spend those extra hours actually reading the book instead of skimming, take the time to enroll in a free online class in a subject you know nothing about.





Those of you who know me, know that this stuff is what I love. Discovering the stories of those that don’t get enough credit. The smallest people in the world make the biggest difference whether it be a girl in a school or a youth that can protect themselves from HIV/AIDS. I am going to shamelessly plug right now for these two amazing organizations so they can continue to make waves in their communities. If you have interest in

1) Donating to VAP so they continue turning the tide on HIV/AIDS in Nairobi youth you can do so here


2) More information on Daraja and their sponsorship program can be found here


Asante Sana!

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Let's Play Catch-Up!

Welp clearly you can see that I am horrible at updating a blog. I warned you! For some reason it’s so daunting. Since my last post we passed the 1 and 2 month marks. Crazy I know. Time is flying.   I could write everything here that has happened but that is way too ambitious, so instead here are some quick snapshots:

1. Work is great as always. I won't go on further as to not bore you with my nerdy obsession with databases and numbers. Just know that I love it and am learning a ton. 

2. I am no longer a picky ‘vegetarian’.
            Oh yes you read correctly. 9 years later. It began as a challenge/bet with a friend to never say ‘no’ to any type of food people offered me in the first month and has continued. I still don’t cook it necessarily, but will gladly grab some bacon on an avo and feta pizza. The amount of meat available here doesn’t help this either. And I would like to call out a certain person for never coming through on their end of the bet! Still waiting, you know who you are.  



WE DID IT! 

3. Ran a 10k

The Cape Town Marathon and 10k was at the end of September. Since we all know how great of shape I am in, I thought running it would be a great idea. It was a great idea indeed, not for running (I was sore for a week), but for the experience. Running on the waterfront with other GRSers was fabulous.









Go, Go, Go



4. Push-started a car 

On the side of a main highway too I am no mechanic but when the intern car breaks down good thing we have a lot of hands....those that can change a tire as well as those that can get out and give the car a little push.  All in the name of WHALE day! 











5. Skillz Street Graduation

Skillz Street is the curriculum for all girls. I was able to attend the holiday camp graduation and celebrate with about 80 girls in song and dance. Maybe one of the happiest days of my life. So much energy and excitement.   Video Here!















6. Attended a rugby game

We bought jerseys and pretended to be the real deal for a day. It was great. South Africa vs.       Australia and the Springboks won! Hier Kom Die Bokke! 













Yes, we did buy crazy neon, flower, patterned hats





7. Attended my first overnight music festival


Bonaroo is a thing in the U.S. Rocking the Daisies is the smaller scale South African version. Got to jam out to Alt J, The Hives and I think Hog Hoggidy Hog? Pitched my first tent, not sure I did much to help but hey I'm counting it. Oh, and also had to yell at some people who were very sure that the tent Kmo and I were sleeping in was theirs...all while Kmo was dead asleep. 






I'm not even sure this is everything. I will try to get better at updating this regularly but no promises. Maybe after my trip to Kenya next Wednesday? Oh yeah I'll be heading to Kenya for 5ish days. First Africa semi-solo travel :))) Until then.....

Sharp sharp from Cape Town with love,
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